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August 9, 2005
Every subdivision in America has at least one Neighbor with a Park for a Front Yard. Ours was Earl.
Earl spent hours trimming and pruning and weeding and aerating and sweeping and clipping and mulching and, very occasionally, crouching and enjoying his Park/Yard. He mowed his grass in a certain length and direction so that it rippled in the wind like a lush, green ocean. His Bradford Pear trees were the envy of the neighborhood, blooming with gusto every spring. The only problem… Earl was an asshole.
When Earl was on vacation a few months ago, someone had the gall to mow a portion of his lawn without first asking his permission. Earl became the grand inquisitor upon his return, questioning each of his neighbors as to whether they saw “suspicious activity” in his Park/Yard while he was gone. Clearly, one of the many landscaping services that come through our neighborhood had made a mistake, a mistake most neighbors would be glad to have happen to them. Not Earl. He seemed to think his yard was maliciously trimmed by someone seeking revenge. And revenge in our neighborhood was entirely possible.
You see, Earl had made liberal use of the ear of the neighborhood Homeowners’ Association President. So in our neighborhood, if a car was parked in front of a home too long (like, 45 minutes or longer), Earl complained and the neighbor received an official letter from the president, sternly threatening a beheading if said car wasn’t parked in the garage where it belonged. Before long, letters were sent out about brush piles, fireworks displays, barking dogs and bratty children. The neighborhood was a small one, so it wasn’t long before nearly every resident I talked to had received a written warning, all thanks, I’m fairly certain, to Earl.
My husband and I pulled together all the pitchforks and buckets of tar we could find, hoping to lead an “intervention” for our Eden-obsessed neighbor, but what with PTA meetings, soccer practices and “Desperate Housewives” viewings, our neighbors couldn’t settle on a date- so we were forced to find a more subtle form of deprogramming.
Our yard happened to be right across the street from Earl’s, which gave us views from our front windows that gave any Central Park apartment a run for its money. But the true beauty of this arrangement was that when Earl looked out of his windows, we made sure he saw chaos. Frenzy. Landscaping from hell.
Since our yard was cloaked in shade, our grass struggled to survive. A few of our hedges had already given up the battle and quietly held their leafless branches up in open admission of defeat. A new ping pong table won the bid for garage space, so our cars sulked and stalled in our driveway and out on the street. Year-round soccer practices led to homemade PVC goals taking up residence on our postage stamp-sized front lawn. The front step became an airing place for everything from cleats to diaper pails. And with three girls getting in and out of cars all day, our yard provided a convenient repository for hair bands, happy meal toys, colored pencils, ribbons and other feminine detritus. To top it all off, our invisible dog fence extended to all borders of our property, which meant that more often than not, our braying, bellowing beagle was calling out each and every person who dared to walk or drive down our street.
It took a year of carefully-choreographed zingers- a dropped gum wrapper here, a dead snake left out on a street grate there, and balls that too often made a trajectory straight for Earl’s manicured lawn. But Earl finally cracked. A few weeks ago, he and his wife drove their luxury sedan off into the sunset, never to return.
Today, a pleasant couple has taken up ownership of the Park/Yard. Within a week of Earl’s departure, the grass turned a pleasing shade of August brown. And just a few days ago, a landscaping company showed up and gave the lawn a buzz cut. Yes, I think our new neighbors will fit in just fine…
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>What’s the deal with all this spamming on blogs? My friend Dipu had a similar thing on his today!We’ve got a lot of Earls in our massive neighborhood too. Just think, the bigger the neighborhood, the more damn Earls you have to deal with. UGH! Why is it that older people either get really senile and silly or just get so darn grouchy when they age? Let’s pray for senility, right? HA!
>I have an Earl across the street, but I refer to her as Martha. She’s pretty great about it, though. She tries to show me what I should do to get my gardens in “show” condition, but I just walk away, grab a beer and tell her I don’t have time to weed, trim or whatever! I thought for sure you were going to tell us he died. I’m kind of glad he didn’t. Hey – thanks for the really nice comment today. I could have said much more, but I don’t want to complain about him too much. It’s a love/hate thing!
>That is too hectic for me, kudos to you resisting the anal retentive wrath of Earl, who doesn’t sound too dissimilar to my housemate who we will be parting ways in a matter of weeks. Neighbourhood associations? YIKES, who has the time for that? And how bored are you with life to actually form one?
>Homeowners associations are formed solely to give people yet another venue for bitchin.
>I have a super-anal HOA myself, and I am one of the people who regularly receives little postcard “reminders” [read: threats] in the mail about the jungle in my front yard. Seriously? This is one major reason I want to move. I pay to have someone buzzcut my lawn, but apparently not often enough, judging from the pile of HOA “correspondance” I have by my door…on my doorknob…in my mailbox…
>Yeah, we were pretty pissed when Earl complained about our brush pile by the street. We have a city service that picks up brush debris on a certain week every three months- We put out our brush and the city, of course, didn’t show up. But the Homeowners’ Association notice sure did!
>Our next door neighbor named Earl gives us free oranges and lemons. He has five (5) orange trees in his FRONT YARD.We don’t mind. We love oranges.
>Growing up we didn’t have a HOA or anything like that, just really cranky neighbors who complained about ‘all the noise’ from ‘those children’, not to mention balls into yards, pets, etc. My father eventually had his revenge when, as he was receiving treatment for what ended up being terminal cancer, he bought himself an Arab headdress and sat himself smack bang in the middle of the yard in his lawn chair. Of course they never said anything to him, but he knew he was giving them fits. Dad always did have an odd sense of humor.
>Earl’s twin brother lives behind us. Maybe he’ll be moving in with Earl soon… right?