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January 18, 2006
>Note to friend of my 15-year-old stepdaughter: Do not call at 6am to tell us it’s a snow day. We realized this when lots of snow fell the night before. We will hear the phone ring and think someone has died and rush to answer it and not fall back asleep until 7am.
Note to baby: If mommy has fallen back asleep at 7am, do not wake up at 7:15am and start singing loudly. Also, do not become emotionally scarred by having to play in your crib until 7:45 when mommy finally drags herself out of bed to release you from your padded prison.
Note to husband: If I wake up and tell you that a) I’m very tired and b) I have a stomachache from the portobello panini we had at Panera last night, don’t keep coming up to me asking if I’ve gone poo poo yet. It’s irritating. And when you have explosive diarrhea later in the day, rather than feeling sympathetic, I’ll probably just think to myself that it was karma paying you a visit.
Note to my 15-year-old stepdaughter: When you have a snow day, that does not mean it’s time to call all your friends and plan out all the places I am going to take you to in order to meet them, particularly when your mom is supposedly coming at 1pm to pick you up. For me, it is still the day before I leave town. And I have lots of stuff to do.
Note to my 12-year-old stepdaughter: What in God’s name made you think it was okay to sharpen your pencils on the playroom closet floor? Who did you think was going to have to clean that up in time for play group yesterday morning?
Note to mean old man who dialed my cellphone by mistake: You’re an asshole. And no, I don’t believe this is the first mistake you’ve made this year.
Note to self: I’m not sure it was such a good idea to dye my hair by myself on top of the $130 highlights I had done six weeks ago. I’m very concerned something’s about to go very wrong the day before I leave to visit my uber-stylish out-of-town friends (you know who you are).
Note to my uber-stylish out-of-town friends: Since I’m in confessional mode, you should know that I have nothing cute to wear and my eyebrows and nails look horrible. I’m worried that you’re going to be horrified when you see the extent of my unstylishness, particularly if something goes very wrong with my hair. My car is dirty too. So you might want to change any reservations you’ve made to a nice, out-of-the way Applebee’s. As long as they make unfashionably pink and frothy alcoholic drinks, I’ll understand.
Note to BoB: I’m pretty sure you are driving at least some of the Mommy Blogger finalists to the brink of madness. The frontrunner is practically begging to be relieved of her agony. I personally managed to release both the status of my hoo ha and my bra size in the space of a week. Daring Young Mom got a freakin’ mullet. And even the irrepressible Penny Pressed has begun feeding her puppy beer and photographing the results in a last-ditch effort to get more votes. Please. Stop the madness. Why not just declare all of us Losers?
Note to laptop: Please stop making those alien life-form sounds. You’re scaring me. And if you die, a part of me will die too. Namely the part that downloaded about 500 baby pictures onto you and hasn’t yet backed them up.
Note to readers: I love all of you, whether you’ve been here one day or 100. If I haven’t visited your site in a while or ever, I’m sorry. I’m trying. Don’t give up on me.
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>Note to self. I get to be the first comment !Have fun with your friends. It is inevitable bunches of crappy things happen on the day you are trying to tidy yourself up.My nails and eyebrows look horrible 90 percent of the time.
>I love your posts, Lucinda.. and I’m STILL trying to vote.. each day.. faithfully.
>i keep trying to vote for you and it wont let me…
>Well I voted for you, I love your blog I have just been reading quietly for sometime, I hope you have fun with your friends!
>I’ll tell you how to spend the $20 for the Arbonne- the Thermal Enzyme mask. It’s green and slimy and makes your face feel like it’s burning!! Anything that feels like this MUST be zapping wrinkles AND zits!It’s a lot of bang for your buck and you REALLY feel like you’ll be beautiful, once the sunburned look goes away after about 2 hours.I know this sounds awful, but I think it’s fun. Of course, I posted pix of myself waxing my mustache, so what do i know about beauty??
>You have my vote.
>Oh, I got suckered into trying all the Arbonne stuff a few months ago, and it was a hassle using 6 or 7 things on my face twice a day. Fortunately, I broke out a little and claimed I was allergic to it and thus was freed from having to buy any of it.Have fun with your friends!!
>I’ve been voting everyday. The Yellow House is pissing me off. She’s just a show off now. ;-)(On a different note – had your Champagne Shrimp and Pasta recipe last night and just wanted to tell you how damn scrumptious it was!)
>Arbonne is a cult. Do not get sucked in or we will have to kidnap you and do that thing where we tie you to a chair in a cheap motel room and slap you until you come to your senses. What’s that called?Although they do have some nice lipgloss, for about $20.00.
>DEPROGRAMMING! That’s it! To get you out of the cult! Whew. Sorry.
>You crack me up. I hope your stepdaughters’ mom ended up showing when she was supposed to. My stepdaughter’s mom hasn’t been around in 7 years, although she did show up unannounced on Christmas day, by trying to sneak trash bags full of presents onto our door step – my stepdaughter “caught” her and had a strange, sad, 15-minute reunion with her…we haven’t heard from her since. SIGH.
>Oh, man. I so related to the uber-stylish friend comment. I sometimes fear that my cool and hip unmarried with awesome careers or artsy hobby friends may be planning a hostile makeover intervention on me. Sadly, I might not even be offended by that at this point! I’m perfecting the casual “mom” look these days. I need help!HAVE FUN. You are fabulous and you know it. Bring those bushy brows back in style…and help the rest of us who have no time to pluck or wax them.
>I’m voting, I’m voting!!
>I enjoyed all your posts, Lucinda and I think you’re a really cool mommy for handling stress and more stress with tons of humor and grace 🙂 Hope you could come and visit me soon!
>Note to Lucinda…(Ok, totally unoriginal, but I had to say it) you’ve got my vote!
>Note to competitive, backed-up, vote whoring bitch. I hope you are able to poo before your trip. It always sucks to have to go at someone else’s house. I hope you have a wonderful weekend away from it all and never check your coughing laptop once. We’ll miss you!!PS- I don’t really think you are a vote whore. 😉
>Arbonne’s a disease and the only cure is making your own stuff. They hate hearing that. They do make nice candles tho–I like the Energize scent.I’ve been trying to vote daily but I must be one of the people who only gets allowed to vote once. Sorry, I tried.
>Oh I LOVE this post!!You go girl! Say it like you mean it!! :-)LadyBug
>Ohhhhhh…I never thought of explosive diarrhea as karma before. I love you no matter where you end up in the totals, you vote whore you! 😉
>Have fun with your friends! Even if you have nothing stylish to wear.Am I the only person who doesn’t know what Arbonne is? I’ve gotta get out of this cave more often…
>I buy my makeup at Target or get it free from my mom or grandma who buy stuff from Clinique, Estee Lauder, and other over-priced department store makeup counters. They get the gift-with-purchase, and it’s always too dark for them. I’m blessed with darker skin and hair than they, so I can wear it.
>Poop Karma–gotta love it!
>I think you have Miss Congeniality all sewed up. And that Big Yellow House lady is just nuts.
>Sounds like someone needs a nap. And deserves one. But you won’t be getting one will you? Poor Lucinda! Since you had such a hard day I’m going to go to every computer I know in the vicinity to secure you your 3rd place status. 🙂 Have a good time and try to de-crankify!
>I tried the Arbonne skin care regimine for a week. It took too much time, I think I lasted three days. I’ll stick to my oil of olay.Good luck with the BoB’s!