I'm Lindsay Ferrier, a Nashville writer with a passion for family travel, exploring Tennessee, and raising kids without losing my mind in the process. This is where I share my discoveries, along with occasional deep thoughts, pop culture tangents and a sprinkling of snark. Want to get in touch? Use the CONTACT form at the top of the page.
March 22, 2006
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I’m on vacation and I’m sitting in my hotel room and you’ll never guess what has stalked me all the way to Florida. My nemesis: Family Fun Magazine. That’s just what I want to see while I’m on vacation, a magazine that makes me feel inadequate as a cardholder in the Mother’s Union. On the cover for this month: Cute Clay Crafts and when you’re all Clay Crafted Out you can then begin having Healthy Fun and playing Healthy Games. Now, I’m not anti “Out-of-this-world Birthday Parties” but I just don’t know how someone has that kind of time, what with all the “8 New Board Games You Have To Try”.
The ad page for Advil and the Lunchables I can totally relate to. Those 2 pages make me think this magazine was actually targeted towards Moms Like Me. And, I will admit my family took a mini vacation to Hershey, Pennsylvania because of a write up in Family Fun. But, seriously, the Cute Clay How To for the Roly-Poly Piglet could just turn ugly in my house. The Boy would insist on naming his after his sister and would make confirmations of their relationship all while carefully squishing the clay pig’s nose. The Girl would find herself completely distraught if it didn’t turn out perfectly and when told that we wouldn’t be taking pictures of her during the craft project, would quickly lose interest. The Baby would insist that her pig have a vagina because we are all about anatomical correctness and we are very driven towards female-gender-only currently. So, you see Family Fun, your Cute Clay Craft Bullshit has just made me need that Advil and because I will have given up all hope I will sling a Lunchable on the table because I’m spent.
This magazine is truly out to get me.
I do subscribe though. I can’t help it. I’m a masochist. I like to read about “the others” and how they are raising amazing children in amazingly crafty environments. There’s some sick part of me that likes to know there are people out there creating doll couches from tissue boxes and celebrating the birthdays of each vegetable in their garden. It gives me confirmation that the world is made up of such vastly different people raising different families. So, if my kid shows up with her Vagina Pig please let it sit on your Homemade Doll Couch; at least you’ll know we have a Family Fun subscription in common.”
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>I’m so naturally crafty that I don’t even NEED FF magazine….I regularly spin sugar like Martha and deck out the ant hills in my backyard so that our ants feel superior to our neighbors just like I do.Sorry…I forget that I’m new here. Sarcasm y’all. That is sarcasm. But I do own a bedazzler!
>Those magazine guilt the crap out of me – my daughter usually gets a good week of crafty parenting before I go back to my old “wanna do a puzzle” ways…
>I do not know this magazine. I will make sure to not get a subscription just as soon as possible. Thanks for the tip!
>In my experience, the moms who are home making the Martha-like crafts, are not as perfect as they seem. Many times, you can catch them in a “Joan Crawford” moment if you pay attention. They are the ones who you hear screaming bloody murder at their kids to clean up their damn messes or else when you drop by for a visit unexpectedly. Then, after the doorbell rings, that Martha switch gets turned and they answer the door so sweety with a curious, “Oh, how long have you been here?” question.I like arts and crafts. But, I’m not Martha. If we do that stuff, my house will look like the crafters association threw up all over it for at least 3 days after.
>You’re totally cracking me up!! I think you should send in a picture of the Vagina Pig to FF. That would be priceless and great revenge for all of us craft-challenged moms. Great guest post:)
>I’m not familiar with the magazine but I loved how you talked about liking to read about “the others” and how they are raising their … children.Are we talking aliens? another planet? Yes, yes we are. In the height of our crafty-ganza years, there was nothing we couldn’t make.But trust me, you wouldn’t have EVER seen any of it in a magazine!
>Try getting the whole damn book like I did and having 600 pages!Of activities for the whole family! to remind me of 600 more reasons why my daughter got a raw deal.Your daughter’s Vagina Pig wil go right along with my daughter’s Crochet My Crotch change purse. They only need one good friend anyway, right?