I'm Lindsay Ferrier, a Nashville writer with a passion for family travel, exploring Tennessee, and raising kids without losing my mind in the process. This is where I share my discoveries, along with occasional deep thoughts, pop culture tangents and a sprinkling of snark. Want to get in touch? Use the CONTACT form at the top of the page.
November 18, 2005
I did it.
Spending just under thirty minutes and just over sixty dollars, I have ensured that Baby will have a veritable mountain of (slightly-used) toys to open on Christmas morning.
If you could see this mountain, you would surely gasp, “Lucinda! How did you manage to buy all of these expensive and oh-so-popular toys for just 60 bones?!”
Two words: Consignment Sale.
Here in suburbia, the annual toy consignment sale is the one true harbinger of the holiday season and for obvious reasons, I wouldn’t miss it for the world.
But before you start up your car, let me warn you that consignment sales are not for the meek and mild-mannered. Oh, no. Only the pushy (and prompt) bitches get anything worthwhile.
I arrived at today’s sale (held at the local mall), moments before the doors opened, joining a silent line of mothers with set jaws and grim expressions. Every mom worth her salt pushed a stroller; Consignment Vets know the stroller is absolutely key in blocking off entire sections of toys so that one can pick and choose without competition.
As the sale began, I raced toward the entrance, zigzagging my stroller to cut off a mom behind me as she surreptitiously tried to edge past. In my zeal, I accidentally nipped the heels of a grandmother ahead of me.
“Sorry,” I shrugged in response to her glare.
Granny didn’t push it. I could see by the hard gleam in her eye that she understood- at consignment sales, anything goes. As if to neutralize the situation, she turned and elbowed a young mom beside her.
Once inside, the women scattered to pluck up toys before anyone else could get to them. I grabbed up a $12 Little Tikes rider, then crawled beneath a table to triumphantly pull out a humongous moving box overflowing with baby doll furniture. It was a steal at $15.
“Hey! Could you move this thing outta the way?!” a mother fumed from behind my stroller, strategically placed to give me first pick of the entire toddler kitchenette section.
Turning back to quickly scan the area, I slowly moved my stroller out of the aisle.
“Junk,” I sniffed at the mom before moving on.
Ahead of me in the video section, a woman was causing quite a ruckus with her son, who was tethered like a dog on a toddler leash. He was busy lunging at toys while nervous mamas tried to edge past him.
“Whoa, Preston. Whoa,” his mother muttered halfheartedly, clearly enjoying the back-up Preston was creating and using the opportunity to peruse the Disney movies.
I stopped short.
“Melanie?” I said.
She looked up.
“Lucinda. Hi,” she said weakly, unable to hide her dismay.
Melanie had briefly attended my play group last year with two runny-nosed, phlegmy toddlers in tow. She mysteriously stopped coming right about the time Baby came down with her first-ever illness, strep throat, and remained sick for a month. I was still peeved about it.
“Ohhhh, the Fisher Price castle,” I said, noting the oversized toy she clutched in her arms. “You know it’s missing the moat, right?”
“The moat?” she said
“It doesn’t even work without the moat,” I ad-libbed. “I was going to buy that and one of the workers was nice enough to warn me about it. That’s why it’s so cheap.”
Her grip loosened slightly.
“Oh well,” I said. “I’m off to look at board books!”
Turning to go, I saw her regretfully put down the castle before I walked away. It was nothing compared to holding a feverish baby non-stop for an entire week, but I’d take what revenge I could get.
Making my way through the aisles, I picked up some pop up books here ($1 for four) a set of alphabet board books there($2), an alphabet wooden puzzle ($2), a musical book of nursery rhymes ($2) and a Fisher Price giraffe holding 10 blocks ($5) before I happened upon the piece de resistance… The coveted Fisher Price barn along with what looked like all the accessories. Yet how could I be sure? Other moms, sensing my hesitation, began circling the toy table, zeroing in on the barn. I felt a thin bead of sweat form on my upper lip.
“They’re all there,” a man said beside me. I looked up. Holy heck, it was Michael Landon!
“M-M-Mr. Landon?” I stuttered.
“The barn retails for $25. The accessories are another $18, not including tax,” he said as I gawked at him. “It’s a great deal at $22. I mean, look at it. It’s practically new.”
Michael put the barn in my shaking hands before turning and disappearing into the crowd.
I looked down at my barn, not believing my eyes. It doesn’t hurt to have God on your side at a consignment sale.
Once everything was paid for, I had a new dilemma… How on earth would I get it all to the car? I sighed and took Baby out of her stroller seat. Loading everything in her place, I picked Baby up and made my way through the mall, feeling like a bag lady with my heaping stroller of toys.
A few times during our torturous journey, I thought the arm that Baby was sitting on was simply going to fall off, or at least give way like a dunking machine platform. But miraculously, it held. We made it to the car, where I unloaded my treasures amidst much gnashing of teeth from mothers struggling to unfold their strollers in the parking lot.
No Fisher Price barn for you, bee-otch!! I thought merrily as a pert blonde frowned at my toyload before quickly turning back to heave her son from his carseat.
And so I say as I sit here surrounded by gently-played-with toys about to be boiled and scoured and otherwise disinfected into near-newness…. Let the suburban holidays begin!
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>Oh, my God! You are so good at story telling. Hat’s off to you. I haven’t even begun to shop yet and barely have an idea as to what to buy. UGH! Too bad there is no trophy for those both organized and tenacious enough to get it done early and cheaply.
>wow, you are the queen!!!one of my gf’s is really good at these things, she finds out where they are going to be and then off we go, she’s been teaching me how to hold my own. i’m finally out of the toy stage, but you should see me with sheets and towels!
>You’re just lucky Fisher-Price is what your kid wants instead of Sony.
>lol. Siiiigh. I can’t wait until I have kids so I can fight the other parents!
>Excellent! Can I borrow you for the post christmas sales we have here in Australia. People go crazy and I need someone like you by my side 🙂
>HA HA HA! This is friggin’ hilarious! I pay full price just to avoid the melee.
>Once I started my oldest son in daycare I HATED all mothers that stuffed their kid with motrin and carted them off to daycare. Once there was a mom whose son had RSV and she was allowed to bring him in the day after the diagnosis. She did the breathing treatments at daycare. As I took 10 days off from work about 2 weeks later, I counted the ways I hated that bitch. I would have loved some revenge.Of course, now I am on my 3rd child and if his fever can be masked with motrin, his ass is on it’s way to daycare. Because, where did he pick-up the damn bug in the first place? I still draw the line at RSV, that’s not funny.
>Oh Lucinda, you brought back so many fond memories with this one…Those awful playgroups, those awful mothers…shudder…Minerva
>Dammit, was that today?
>I’m all drunk and stuff………..but isn’t Michael Landon dead?!I want to go garage saleing with you. We’d be the wonder twins of bitchiness.
>ditsy chick: I understand the temptation to send a sick child to daycare- Missing work is really stressful- but this woman is a stay at home mom. Bringing your sick kids to play group so that you can socialize is just plain wrong. And it realllllly irritates me.And Susie… Michael Landon is an angel, of course, straight from the Highway to Heaven. He makes appearances here on earth from time to time… even though his series was cancelled.
>I want to come next year! I am sure there is something like this here, but I haven’t found it yet. I found myself cheering for you all through your story. You go girl!!!
>You rock Lucinda! I totally wouldn’t mess with you at the mall. Especially since you, apparantly have the Big Guy on your side!
>Bargain hunting… should be an Olympic sport in my opinion.
>Oh thank heavens for you, Lucinda! Now I am not the only person I know who has gifted her children with gently used items at Christmas. They have no idea!It happened to me as a kid too. When I was 13 I got my first typewriter for Christmas. It was electric and the letter W stuck but it was THE best present ever. LOL
>I LOVE that!!!and I soooooooooooo love those consignment sales.. I have thrown a few elbows to the ribs getting to the good stuff too… hopefully I didn’t hit you! haha.
>Oh Lord, Lucinda. I think you said it best when the holidays have now begun.I think I’ll do my shopping on-line thankyouverymuch.
>You are a BRILLIANT writer Lucinda. I was so depressed and sleep deprived this morning, but I was cackling contentedly by the time I finished this post.
>Oh, too funny, Lucinda! I used to have all the Fisher-Price toys; the farm, school, garage, Sesame Street, etc. and I was so stupid as to sell them all at garage sales over the years. I sure wish I had them all now!
>That’s a hoot! It’s bringing back memories of when my kids were younger. I bet I could find some (chewed on) board books I’d sell REAL CHEAP!
>You are the woman. The mom. Congratulations on all the bargains. And, what a heartwarming story that makes me want to do absolutely all of my shopping online now!
>you are great…i will be back for more…i needed a laugh